💍 Q&A: The Ceremony Was Our Favourite Part – Here’s Why

For many couples, the reception steals the spotlight — the food, the dancing, the speeches. But ask the newlyweds in the photo above, and they’ll tell you straight: the ceremony was hands-down their favourite moment of the day.

We sat down with them for a quick Q&A to unpack why the ceremony deserves just as much hype (if not more) than the party.

🌿 Q: Why was the ceremony the highlight for you?

A: “It was the moment everything became real. Standing there, surrounded by our closest people, we weren’t just planning a wedding anymore — we were living it. The vows, the quiet glances, the emotions… it felt like time slowed down.”

💌 Q: Did you write your own vows?

A: “Yes, and it made everything so much more personal. We kept them short but heartfelt — a mix of promises, inside jokes, and a touch of tradition. Everyone was crying and laughing at the same time.”

🌍 Q: Were there cultural or family traditions included?

A: “Absolutely. We had a symbolic blessing that honoured our families and tied back to Southern African roots. It made our parents and grandparents feel seen, and it added so much depth to the moment.”

🎶 Q: What role did music play?

A: “Huge! Our aisle song wasn’t the classic organ piece. We chose something modern that still gave us goosebumps. It set the tone from the first step down the aisle.”

✨ Q: Any ceremony details you’re especially proud of?

A: “We kept it simple but meaningful. Our bridal party in soft, dusty lilac blended beautifully with the natural bush backdrop. And our unity ritual — blending wine — felt so us. We love that every couple can choose something unique, whether it’s candles, sand, or even planting a tree.”

🥂 Q: What advice would you give to couples planning their ceremony?

A: “Don’t rush through it. Make it yours. Add one or two personal touches that reflect your story, whether it’s vows, a ritual, or even the way you walk in. The ceremony sets the tone for the whole day — it deserves attention.”

✨ Final Thoughts

The ceremony might last only 30 minutes, but it’s the heart of the wedding. From personal vows whispered through tears to laughter shared with your bridal party, these moments remind us why we’re all gathered in the first place: to celebrate love, family, and the promise